Forever the hostess with the mostess. Me aged 7.

I didn’t come this far to only come this far…my journey is far from done. And neither is yours.

I didn’t ‘survive’ all I went through to not change my mindset, not aim higher and not achieve more.

I certainly didn’t work hard to not work harder and get a better view from the top of my game.

One daunting day in 2014 I woke up feeling groggy, sad, deflated, tired and with no zest life. I had a rough night. That same day at 5:55PM it was confirmed that I had survived a Heart Attack during the last 24 hours. I was 31 years old.

What happened after that fatal health complication changed my world; for the best.

I was a 31 year old Mother of two is an unhealthy loveless, careless, dark marriage with no prospects of ever getting better. I wasn’t earning as I’d left my well paid secure job to look after my children at the demand of my now ex. I was deeply unhappy and suffering from PND and depression (oh and anxiety). I had no friends around me. My nearest friends were hundreds of miles away and I didn’t tell them what I was going through because I didn’t want to burden them.

I was lonely. I had no companionship. I was deeply unhappy with the way I looked. I hated me. I recall often thinking this couldn’t be it. Is this what life was? Of course having that train of thought ruffled feathers of some of the cultural elitists.

But that Heart Attack…it triggered change. Major change.

Fast forward to December 2018 and I am 35 years old. I am happier, livelier and I am no longer suffering from depression. I am no longer in a dead end relationship. I learnt I was worth more than THAT.

I have written a free self-help book to encourage others to EMPOWER themselves and change their lives. I have also written a ecookery book (on kindle) and I have completed 1.5 young adult manuscripts as well as nearing the completion of a middle grade fantasy/sci-fi manuscript.

I now Coach and deliver courses in confidence and transformation.

You see I was there; at the rock bottom. When there’s no light.

When the nights are long and you are antsy about the dawn breaking because it’s another day you need to drag yourself through. I’ve been in THAT relationship that doesn’t make sense. It’s like you give; but nothing ever comes back. I’ve been the one bending over backwards to keep everyone happy but no one ever fought by corner. I’ve also been the girl that knew some relationships around me were toxic but in fear of total loneliness I did not cut them off causing myself more damage.

If I can get out of all of THAT and be doing what I do today what’s stopping you? Yes you. Seriously I really don’t talk to improve my health…you guys need to listen to me. 

As part of my new path I deliver one-to-one Coaching in a range of areas. I only Coach in areas I have ample experience in. My sessions are not priced as high as you will see some Coaches charge AND none of us are in the wrong for that!  I want my sessions to be accessible for as many people as possible.

NOTE: if you are currently unable to afford to invest in coaching please do check out my free ebook The Awesomeness from within. It’s over 50 pages of awesomeness.

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You were not put on earth to coast; you were put on to live the best live ever; for you! Not your family, not your Teacher, not your spouse.

YOU.

Now stop putting off your future; it starts NOW.